The Golden Journal #8: Dream Big


Dream Big

Last week, I attended a goal-setting workshop led by Coach Tanya Richard—and let me tell you, it was a game-changer. One idea stuck with me long after the session ended:

“If your goal feels 100% comfortable, it’s not a goal. It’s a to-do list item.”

Sound harsh? Maybe. But here’s the truth he shared: Your goals should feel incompatible with your current self. The magic happens when your “future self” and “current self” aren’t quite in sync.

According to Coach Tanya, meaningful goals should stretch you—not just nudge you. If your goal doesn’t make you a little nervous, it’s time to rewrite it. Why?

  • Learning, adapting, and developing new skills only happen when you step outside your comfort zone.
  • If your goal feels too easy, it’s likely because you’re not envisioning a transformed version of yourself.

Your goals aren’t just about ticking boxes—they’re about becoming someone new. So, if your 2024 goals feel too safe, grab a coffee, revisit them, and ask:

“Does this scare me… just a little?”

If not, rewrite it. Your future self will thank you.

Cheers to stretching

Interesting Insights

TKCNOTES

The last week's post is a book club article. A summary of the fantastic work of Simon Sinek - Start with WHY. He shares an alternative perspective to existing assumptions about why some leaders and organisations have achieved such a disproportionate degree of influence.

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